Manhattan Weekends

One of the things we’ve come to love out about this town is how you can find fun things to do every weekend.

This past weekend was Varsity Donut’s 5th Birthday Party, so they had this donut cake and gave out donuts for free all those in attendance.

Varsity birthday party 2016

They also shot candy and those varsity headbands out of a cannon. My whole life I dreamed that God would make it rain candy and was told it would never happen and then today I found starburst fall from the sky. Candy cannon gets and A+.

Donut Cake is another reason I love this town. #varsitydonuts #ManhattanKS

They also had these great Coke Zero Fountains

Sadie Piper Hulu Hoops pretty well, she must get that from her mother.

Beckham Neck Hulu Hoops, not sure where he picked up this skill.

On our way home we saw a sign for free Pony Rides, so we stopped and rode ponies.

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At home we found a young deer and a mommy deer in the front yard.


Did a little afternoon fishing at Anneberg Park

Sept 2016 soccer fishing

Sept 2016 soccer fishing

Becks was pretty excited about this catfish

Sept 2016 soccer fishing

Some weekends have tailgates and football, others parades and festivals, but what’s great is there are always so many great things in this community to go out and participate in.

















Jr Zookeeper

This summer Beckham participated in the Jr Zookeeper program at our zoo.


At the informational meeting last Spring they definitely didn’t talk it up: “you will be cleaning poop and it’s hard hard work.”

Brian and I were trying to decide if we should make Beckham do it anyways to learn work ethic. But after the meeting when we asked him what he thought, he said, “I want to do it!”


He had two 4-hour volunteer shifts a week all summer. The first day he came home and said, “Mom, a bucket of water is REALLY heavy!” We loved that he was getting these experiences, cause while we highly value manual labor, our lifestyle doesn’t naturally allow for teaching as much as we’d like.


But the zoo has plenty of it!!


They scrubbed the pond almost weekly. Once they drain it they take the frogs and move them while they clean.


They also cleaned the inside animal’s cages: ferrets, ducks, turtles. And they got to play with them if they finished early! He would come home with funny stories about Patrick the Duck, or Cookie the ferret. He now knows the names of most of the animals at the zoo! I didn’t even realize they all had names!!

They also cut up a lot of animal “diets”, so basically made the animals their meals! He tasted a “Money Biscuit”…he said they taste like Cheerios!

K-State did some research on the program and they gave the kids cameras and had them take pictures of things they thought were interesting or important.

Here’s a few of his pics:


“Poopy water that was a cool color”0067_61320009


This was for sure the highlight of his summer and he can’t wait to do it again next year, God willing!



Ninja Box Turtles

Well. Laura has abandoned us for California again. It’s gonna be 90 degrees while she is there. The first time she left us we made a music video to Summer Girl, the second time it was robots dancing to Beastie Boys, this time they wanted to make Ninja Turtles and since there was no school today we went ahead and made that our afternoon project. Here are the results.


Ninja Turltles

Ninja Turltles

Ninja Turltles

Peace is beautiful and ugly

Peace with God
Laura and I were watching a television show called Madam Secretary. It is about a fictional Secretary of State played by Tea Leoni. In a recent episode she’s been working on a peace agreement between Russia and Ukraine (which is not so fictional). Many lives are lost in the process. American, Russians and Ukrainian. The whole process is a very difficult and messy effort. At the end of the episode someone reflects on how great it is that the peace agreement was finally reached and she responded, “Peace is a beautiful thing, making peace is not.”
That statement resonated with me as I thought about the Gospel, about the peace we have with God through Jesus.
Having peace with God is a beautiful thing, the making of that peace with God was not.
The death of Jesus was a very violent, ugly event. It doesn’t take much to imagine the pain, the blood, the exhaustion and that doesn’t even begin to explain the pain we can’t see with our eyes. The anguish as the wrath of God is poured out on Jesus.
So Jesus went through that ugly event in history to be the sacrifice, for the payment of our debt we owe because of our sin. So Jesus died on a cross because that’s how he could make peace with God for His people. A horrendous event, a beautiful result. Praise be to God.

Hide Your Statues, Hide Your Children

As the kids and I were looking at old pics recently we noticed mom rides a lot of statues and various things that mom’s don’t typically get on. Let me prove our point…

A deer in Overland Park

Laura Ride 1

A fake horse in Baxter SpringsLauraRide2

Another fake horse in the grocery store. LauraRide3

An oil derrick on the Thomas Farm lauraride4

A real horse in Oklahoma


A dog in St Charles, Missouri


A fake cow in Oklahomalauraride7

A fake eagle on the Katy Trail. lauraride8

A bear in Colorado8365886404_da3606b1ca_z

A sabertooth tiger in Olathe8605454798_a3c8c96fc7_z

A fake bull in Oklahoma8642824529_b150f466a4_z

A gun in what I assume is Texas8644857202_85a30f9b85_z (1)

Then we realized what her example has done to those around here…

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Beckham on inmodest woman in downtown KC


Sadie at Minute Maid Park


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Boo and Brian in Omaha 8607636762_2d5e31526b_z

Sadie somewhere west of Mississippi 8643610251_7c0d1f4b58_z

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Rudy riding a giant horse in Overland Park8755501596_7c0f72c826_z

Sadie a tiny horse in thrift store9481979915_f2da6c3149_z

Chris a Jayhawk on I-709721790756_754f3e9eb7_z

Sadie and Becks on a giant horse 9761462924_c408042c7c_z

So learn from us, keep your statutes and your children away from this crazy (crazy wonderful!) woman.

Where To Give



There are just a couple of days left to give this year if you’d like contributions to nonprofit organizations to count towards this year’s tax deductions. So here are a few places you can give where I am confident your money will be used well for the Kingdom of God.

I’ve been on both sides of giving and I used to think if I couldn’t give a big gift or give monthly it was worthless or that it was some sort of insult if I could only give $5 a month or a small one time donation. Now that I’m on the other side I can tell you we truly need both. Even $5 is not an insult, it makes us feel loved, encouraged and supported far beyond you could ever imagine. So please consider supporting some of these people, even if it is a very small amount; just seeing your name in our list of contributors is a great encouragement that I know many of us need.

1. Us of course, you can read about Church Plant in Manhattan and how you can help here if you’re intrested

2. Jon Dunning is the RUF Campus Pastor at K-State. He is working right now to establish this new campus ministry with a great emphasis on teaching the Word of God. Jon is a great guy, he loves the Lord and handles well the need to help new believers wade into the Word of God, while also taking those who have walked with Christ longer deep into Word. Jon is in need of support for the coming year. You can give to Jon by going to and typing in his name, “Jon Dunning.” I know he would really appreciate it.

3. Sam Kassing is working with CRU at K-State and a great guy who cares deeply to see Jesus save sinners. He and his wife Leslie are currently raising funds so they can return to campus in the Spring semester. If you desire to support Sam or learn more about the ministry at their CRU page.

4. Jeff & Carmen Schober. They are a great couple who are involved at Manhattan Pres and will be serving out their last semester at CRU at K-State before transitioning to other vocational work here in Manhattan. You can give at their CRU Page as well.

5. Robbie Hotz grew up as a member of Redeemer Presbyterian Church in Overland Park; he was in high school when I began as the Youth Pastor there. Today Robbie is serving with Young Life on their college ministry at Kansas State. If you desire to give to Robbie click here. Then select button that reads, “A Young Life Staff Member’s Ministry” and type in Hotz. I know he would really appreciate any financial support you can give.

6. Ben & Julie Jensen are a couple in our Presbytery who are headed to Japan in 2015 as missionaries. They are so close now to having their full support and so if you’d like to help them get there please consider giving to them here or learn more about them here.

7. David and Katelyn Hardy are also serving with CRU at K-State, learn more about them and give at their ministry page.

There are many more ministries and people worth supporting, I just made this quick list of people I’ve talked to recently and know could use the support and encouragement.

Thank you again for your prayers and support. We don’t take for granted the body of Christ God has graciously given.




End of Year Giving

End of Year Giving

As our first full year comes to an end I wanted to say thank you to everyone who has supported us with finances, with prayer and with presence. We’ve seen God grow this church plant in ways we didn’t expect and it has been such a joy to get to watch the way God works.

We send out updates regularly with updates. Today though I want to ask a simple question.

If you have given to this Gospel work in the past, would you consider doing so again for 2015? And if you haven’t, would you consider doing so this year? We are closer to local sustainability, but not there yet.

We are also exploring a few building purchase possibilities that would give us permeance in town and allow for transition to a Sunday morning worship time.

I know when I give to something I want to know that money is being stewarded well. I’ll tell you this, we’ve been told we have a very small budget for a PCA Church Plant. We are also finishing 2014 nearly $25,000 under budget. We won’t spend needlessly.

We’re are not looking to build a church with marketing strategy, but rather trusting God to build His church through faithfulness to the ordinary means of grace we see in Scripture. That is the proclamation of God’s Word, prayer and the administration of the sacraments (the Lord’s Supper and Baptism).

So while we have grown much faster than we ever dreamed, we still need the support of the saints who may not live in Manhattan, but who believe in the vision to plant a church in this influential city. A vision to see God bring unbelievers into faith. To marriages and families strengthened as they grow closer to their Savior. A vision to build the faith of Kansas State University students whom God will spread across Kansas, the United States and the whole globe after graduation. A vision to give a solid church home for Army families who will spend 3 to 4 years here before moving on in service to our country.

There are so many things to spend your money on and I know at the end of the year our government gives incentives to give to non-profit organizations. Please consider how your giving might be used for the sake of the Kingdom through this church plant in Manhattan, Kansas.

If you believe this would be a good stewardship of your finances please follow the link below. You can support with a single time, monthly, quarterly or yearly gift. Every bit helps and it is a great encouragement to us when we see your names in our list of supporters.

Click Here for our Support Page

If by check, please make payable to Reformed University Fellowship and be sure to put “Brian Hough” on the memo line of the check to be sure it doesn’t go to general fund.

Mail to
Reformed University Fellowship
1700 North Brown Road, Suite 104
Lawrenceville, GA 30043